Teenagedom

Teenagedom – Who you are now is not who you will be. You are still taking shape. Meanwhile, create – and do things just for you
Hadley Freeman writing in the Guardian has written a wonderful piece entitled, I was not good at being a teenager. But I do have some advice’ It’s great piece that concludes with three pieces of wisdom: “But I do have three pieces of advice for making it pass a little more painlessly. 
  • First, create something. Write, draw, bake, knit, make a magazine, design a video game – whatever, it doesn’t matter, as long as it comes from you. Just make something that wasn’t there before, so you can look at it and say, “That came out of my brain, my fingers, me. Without me, that would not exist.” One of the best ways to learn who you are internally is to find out what kind of mark you can make externally.
  • Second, do things just for you. I’m sure you’re sick of condescending oldsters like me wagging their fingers at you about “the selfie generation”, which is just our way of trying to say how worried we are about you coming of age at a time when your worthiness is measured in likes. But try to do as much as possible just for yourself, not external validation: make something and don’t Instagram it. Go to a gig on your own, and don’t Facebook it. Validate yourself.
  • Finally, remember that you are currently wearing teenager goggles. This means that everything you are experiencing is being refracted through the crazy hazy hormonal moshpit in your head, as well as the various injustices that come with that time of life when you’re not sure if you’re an adult or a child and no one else is, either”
The Article is here (HT Youthblog)